{"id":4323,"date":"2021-06-11T09:29:48","date_gmt":"2021-06-11T07:29:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monikaur.cz\/?p=4323"},"modified":"2022-09-27T12:09:26","modified_gmt":"2022-09-27T10:09:26","slug":"kdyby-arogance-nadnasela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/kdyby-arogance-nadnasela\/","title":{"rendered":"Kdyby arogance nadn\u00e1\u0161ela, bylo by nebe pln\u00e9 balon\u016f"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mo\u017en\u00e1 to tak\u00e9 zn\u00e1te, do va\u0161eho prostoru vkro\u010d\u00ed arogantn\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd ho sv\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm naprosto nabour\u00e1. N\u011bkdy na n\u011bj doslova civ\u00edte a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te si: \u201eCo to m\u011blo b\u00fdt?\u201c nebo t\u0159eba vn\u00edm\u00e1te nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 pocity, kter\u00e9 jako by ve v\u00e1s k\u0159i\u010dely: \u201eJsem ve \u0161patn\u00e9 h\u0159e!\u201c Co s t\u00edm? Pro\u010d jsou lid\u00e9 arogantn\u00ed? Poj\u010fme se na to spole\u010dn\u011b pod\u00edvat.<\/p>\n

Arogance vs. asertivita<\/h1>\n

Narozd\u00edl od asertivn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed se arogance vyzna\u010duje jin\u00fdmi charakterov\u00fdmi vlastnostmi, projevy. Mnohdy je pr\u00e1v\u011b arogance zam\u011b\u0148ov\u00e1na za asertivitu. Asertivita \u010di asertivn\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong> je zdrav\u00e9 autentick\u00e9 p\u0159istupov\u00e1n\u00ed ke komunikaci, kdy jedinec si pln\u011b uv\u011bdomuje sv\u00e9 hodnoty, hranice, respekt s\u00e1m k\u00a0sob\u011b a k ostatn\u00edm.<\/strong> Je schopen p\u0159ijmout, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo na sv\u016fj osobn\u00ed n\u00e1zor a tak\u00e9 mo\u017enost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/p>\n

\"arogantni<\/p>\n

Arogantn\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk se mnohdy c\u00edt\u00ed b\u00fdt nad\u0159azen\u00fd. \u010casto se domn\u00edv\u00e1, \u017ee je d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed<\/strong> a od sv\u00e9ho okol\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1 pozornost, pochvalu ne-li obdiv. Velmi \u010dasto se pot\u0159ebuje povy\u0161ovat a m\u00edt st\u00e1le publikum \u2013 v\u00a0koutku du\u0161e \u010dek\u00e1 na aplaus. Vn\u00edm\u00e1 a v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee je VIP a \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00ed speci\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstup a podm\u00ednky. Ve skute\u010dnosti jsou ale jeho projevy arogance obrann\u00fdm mechanismem, kter\u00fd poukazuje na ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed a\u017e n\u00edzkou sebehodnotu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Arogance v souvislostech<\/h2>\n

\u010c\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed je m\u00edra arogantn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed a projev\u016f, t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b si \u010dlov\u011bk v\u011b\u0159\u00ed (ve sv\u00e9 schopnosti, osobnost, talenty). Proto se v interakci s druh\u00fdmi sna\u017e\u00ed demonstrovat svou dominanci a douf\u00e1, \u017ee o n\u00ed p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed. Z pohledu strachu m\u00e1 takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk strach z odm\u00edtnut\u00ed, posouzen\u00ed. Proto odm\u00edt\u00e1 velmi rychle druh\u00e9 a to d\u0159\u00edve, ne\u017e odm\u00edtnou oni jeho. Jak se to projevuje? Je to docela \u010dast\u00e1 situace, kdy nev\u00e1h\u00e1 nap\u00e1lit do druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka kritiku v p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9m p\u0159enosu, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 kritiku sv\u00e9 osoby nebo chov\u00e1n\u00ed velmi t\u011b\u017ece nese.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"nove<\/p>\n

Sou\u010dasn\u00e1 doba, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e na\u0161e spole\u010dnost preferuje individualismus a soupe\u0159iv\u00e9 sebeprosazen\u00ed, podporuje tento styl chov\u00e1n\u00ed, respektive vzorce chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pod\u00edvejme se kolem sebe \u2013 v\u0161ude instagramov\u00e9 \u00fa\u010dty a facebookov\u00e9 profily, kter\u00e9 prezentuj\u00ed mnohdy um\u011bl\u00e9 sv\u011bty a p\u0159edh\u00e1n\u00ed se a\u017e narcistick\u00fdmi projevy. Vezmeme-li v\u00a0\u00favahu kult budov\u00e1n\u00ed narcistick\u00e9 osobnosti bez vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed emo\u010dn\u00ed inteligence, kter\u00e1 je z\u00e1kladem kvalitn\u00edch lidsk\u00fdch vztah\u016f, pak se opravdu m\u016f\u017eeme zasn\u00edt do p\u0159edstavy, \u017ee: \u201eKdyby arogance nadn\u00e1\u0161ela, bylo by nebe pln\u00e9 bal\u00f3n\u016f.\u201c. \u201eV\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00ed\u201c posuzuj\u00ed shora \u201emravence\u201c, kte\u0159\u00ed se zaob\u00edraj\u00ed emocemi a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhem \u017eivota.<\/p>\n

Kudy z toho ven?<\/h2>\n

Cesta je z\u0159ejm\u00e1. Zastavit kult sebeprezentace fale\u0161n\u00e9ho J\u00c1 a za\u0159adit do vzd\u011bl\u00e1vac\u00edch syst\u00e9m\u016f alespo\u0148 z\u00e1klady emo\u010dn\u00ed inteligence.<\/strong> Pom\u00e1hat zm\u011bn\u011b ment\u00e1ln\u00edch n\u00e1vyk\u016f a vzorc\u016f chov\u00e1n\u00ed z PROSAZEN\u00cd na POROZUM\u011aN\u00cd.<\/p>\n

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J\u00e1 respektuji tebe, ty respektuje\u0161 m\u016fj sv\u011bt.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

P\u0159\u00e1la bych si, aby zejm\u00e9na mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 na\u0161li cestu, na n\u00ed\u017e porozum\u00ed sami sob\u011b a pochop\u00ed, \u017ee dosa\u017een\u00ed c\u00edle je zejm\u00e9na v\u00a0pro\u017eitku cesty, kter\u00e1 k\u00a0n\u011bmu vede.<\/strong>\u00a0 Aroganci zam\u011bnili za sebepozn\u00e1n\u00ed a zv\u00eddavost, ka\u017ed\u00fd den m\u00e1m p\u0159ece mo\u017enost poznat n\u011bco nov\u00e9ho. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee je to mo\u017en\u00e9. Tak r\u00e1da bych se d\u00edvala do oblak a vn\u00edmala nebe pln\u00e9 hv\u011bzd m\u00edsto nafouknut\u00fdch bal\u00f3n\u016f, kter\u00e9 v\u00a0atmosf\u00e9\u0159e stejn\u011b jednou prasknou.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mo\u017en\u00e1 to tak\u00e9 zn\u00e1te, do va\u0161eho prostoru vkro\u010d\u00ed arogantn\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd ho sv\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm naprosto nabour\u00e1. N\u011bkdy na n\u011bj doslova civ\u00edte a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te si: \u201eCo to m\u011blo b\u00fdt?\u201c nebo t\u0159eba vn\u00edm\u00e1te nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 pocity, kter\u00e9 jako by ve v\u00e1s k\u0159i\u010dely: \u201eJsem ve \u0161patn\u00e9 h\u0159e!\u201c Co s t\u00edm? Pro\u010d jsou lid\u00e9 arogantn\u00ed? Poj\u010fme se na to spole\u010dn\u011b … <\/p>\n

Cel\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nek<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":795,"featured_media":4348,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[175,176,51,177,163],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4323"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/795"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4323"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4323\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4348"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4323"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4323"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.monikaur.cz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4323"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}